Sunday, November 22, 2009

Thanksgiving Break!

Its almost Thanksgiving, and I am dying to go home. Dying! Thankfully, we will be headed to Atlanta in two days time! This year is extra special, as my Gran will be here. Super Gran is awesome… she will be 80 in February, and still makes the Trans-Atlantic trip a couple of times a year! She has always asked us about our Christmas trees, etc. but is a creature of habit and does not like to be away from home during the holidays. This is understandable, as only one of her children (two if you count dad) and three of her grandchildren (well, now five if you count Jordan and Pam) live in the US. A couple of years ago, I started bugging her about coming out in November. She could come for Thanksgiving (clearly not something we celebrate in the UK), spend mum and Craig’s birthdays with them (November 21 and 28, respectively), and we would even put up our trees early for her to see them. Well last year, it worked! It was particularly nice that last year was a “Cormack Thanksgiving Year” for us; we got to celebrate Gran’s first Thanksgiving with her! This year is a “Patton Thanksgiving Year.” BUT my sweet dad (and mum, of course) decided to fly us down for the break!

We are going to have such a busy time and will be spending lots of time with both families. We will leave Pittsburgh Tuesday evening (we do not have classes on Wednesday) and mum (and probably Gran, who arrives in Atlanta tomorrow) will pick us up from the airport. We will spend Tuesday evening and Wednesday with my family. I missed mum’s birthday (yesterday), but I hope we can go to dinner to celebrate her birthday with her. Wednesday, we will probably go shopping for bridesmaid’s dresses. Pam, Craig’s (my brother) sweet fiancĂ©, has decided that she would pick a colour swatch from David’s Bridal and let each of her bridesmaids select their own dress (stipulations being colour and length). So, we thought it would be fun if we could all go dress shopping together while Gran is here! Hopefully, Pam and Bronda will be able to come with us… I want Pam to have “right of refusal” on each dress.

Later on Wednesday, we will head out to Covington to see Jordan’s family. I am not sure what time, as Jordan and I are pretty impatient when it comes to traffic, and you KNOW what Thanksgiving eve traffic is like. My assumption is that we will wait until about 8pm to make the drive to Covington in order to avoid the traffic. We will spend Thanksgiving Day at the Patton’s and I think everyone will be there (at least at some point – Kristen and James arrive at lunchtime). We will stay in Covington until Jordan wakes up on Friday (or early afternoon, if Jordan wakes up early).

Friday, I am trying to get time with my sweet friend Kristin. One of my best friends from college, she is now working for the Department of State in DC! It seems like we only manage to get together when we are both in Atlanta, but that is okay… we do try and pretty frequently get to talk. What is nice about our friendship is that despite the fact that we are both so busy, and often go weeks (or even months last time!) without getting to talk, we always pick up right where we left off. I am hoping that she will be bringing her puppy (Gus) home with her and we can go for a “play date” with Gus and Bailey at the dog park! Kristin was also one of my few friends to make it to Aberdeen for my wedding. My Gran LOVES here (as well as all my other friends that she met at the wedding)… it would be such a treat if Gran could see Kristin too! If this doesn’t work out, we will at least both be in town for part of Christmas Break.

The rest of Friday will be more family time; Craig’s birthday is on Saturday, so my assumption is that we will celebrate Craig’s birthday on Friday, given Saturday’s happenings. Which brings me to Saturday: Georgia Tech vs. UGA football! This is always fun (yes, even when our team blew chunks); this time will be even more special, as all nine – yes nine—of us will be at the game! Mum and Dad, Jordan and I, Craig and Pam, Rachel and Tyler, and Super Gran! It is an evening game (8pm), so we will actually have a lot of time during the day to hang out (perhaps do some more Christmas shopping). We return to Pittsburgh Sunday evening.

I am ignoring the elephant in the room. Schoolwork. Groan. It is that dreaded time of the year when everything is due. In top of my typical work-load (of reading and discussing), I have the following requirements: Democratic Theory Paper and Oral Exam, EU Paper, Comparative Politics exam, and Methods Paper, Presentation and Exam. Without giving too much away, lets just say that I am far from prepared. Rather than blogging, I should be preparing for the week. I am going to have to bring some work home with me over the break, although it is not clear when I will have time to do this! Oh well, c’est la vie.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Documenting the Last Three Months

Here are the pictures I promised in my last post.

During mum's visit, we worked like crazy to finish the house. Here are some of the things we did:Bought and assembled this chair. I am planning to get the matching ottoman soon! We also bought and hung the curtain. This curtain covers a closet, which has no door.
Bought and assembled the butchers block, bought and hung the curtains, and bought the basket under the butchers block so that I can hide my tupperware!
We bought and hung this curtain for the dining room.
Another view of the dining room.
And another!
And here is my office/gym.
Finally, we finished the guest bedroom. Come and visit us!
Of course, we found time to eat too! This is us at Pangea, just off of Walnut Street.
On thing that I missed in my last post is that I went to see dad during the first couple of weeks of being here. He was on a business trip to Cleveland, so I drove up there (only about 2.5 hours) and had dinner with him.
Andrea, Yasemin, and I at Will's place for a "Welcome Party" for first years.
With new friends at Hemmingways.
Allison's visit and our yummy cupcakes!
Jordan's birthday and his rocky road cupcakes.
Visiting Bailey in Atlanta.
My crazy family after Craig and Pam's engagement dinner.
With Craig and Rachel at the GT-UNC game.
With classmates at the GPSA happy hour.With Vicky and Henry during their visit.
With Andrea and Yasemin at a talk by an ECJ Justice.
Cassie, Andrea, Yasemin and I at a Halloween party and Brandon and Hethba's.With mum and Rachel in Auburn.Happy hour on Yasemin's birthday!

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Its been a while...

Okay, so Kristen has been getting on my case about updating this thing…. so here goes nothing! Since my last post a ton has happened (hence the lack of updates). Fasten your seat belts, this is a synopsis of our lives since August 7 (3 months)!

In the middle of August, mum came to visit us. Jordan was in orientation by this point, so mum and I had a few days together. Poor mum; she was such a trooper and helped me finish the house before my academic obligations began! With multiple trips to Ikea and Target, we finally got (and assembled) all the extra furniture we needed and finished buying and hanging curtains. Thankfully, her visit was not all work! We spent time walking around Bloomfield and Oakland, so that mum could see where we would be spending most of our time, we tried a bunch of new restaurants, and we found an outlet mall. I have since found one that I like better, but more on that later! We were so exhausted that we crashed every night, but it was so nice to have mum here!

Once mum left, the real work began! And by real work, I mean Jordan’s classes and my math boot camp (yes, math boot camp for political scientists). It sounds crazy, but I am actually thankful for math boot camp. Hear me out. Orientations are awkward: put a bunch of people (nine, in our case) in a room together, tell them a bunch of stuff that they are expected to (but largely will not) remember, and expect the people to meet each other in an artificial manner. Gross. With math boot camp, however, we (the first year cohort) were thrown into a situation where we had to get down to work and were in the situation with all of the second years, who already knew each other. Nothing unites like a common enemy. And math camp was our common enemy. Indeed, when we were thrown into the potentially awkward “meet each other” situations, we already knew each other (to some degree or another) and had at least something to talk about.

I am pleased to say that I have not met a person in the program that I dislike. There are people that I have more and less in common with, but I can more than merely “put up” with everyone I have met so far. As far as my cohort goes, there are three women who study the EU (myself, Yasemin and Andrea); the three of us clicked almost immediately. I suppose this is a good thing, since we will be spending the majority of our program together (between classes and talks). The fourth girl in our cohort, Cassie, has also become dear to us. We had a girl’s night about a month ago for the four of us, and what fun we had just sitting and chatting with wine, cookies and cupcakes! We decided that we should make an effort to do this more often, but that has proven impossible thus far given November work schedules! I digress.

Following boot camp, my real classes began. This semester, I am taking democratic Theory and Democratization, Comparative Politics, EU Politics, and Empirical Methods of Research. I have taken three of these classes before, and have been exposed to the material from all four, but it is so interesting to see how differently these courses are taught at Pittsburgh as opposed to Georgia Tech. Frankly, what I am taking away from my classes, as much as the material itself, is an idea of how I would (will) teach these classes when my turn arrives. This, to me, has been the value added of taking graduate coursework at two different schools: when I teach these classes, I hope to pull the strengths of each way of presenting the material. The challenge, however, will be avoiding a course that is ideologically, epistemologically, and methodologically incoherent; there has to be a way to do justice to these different perspectives without being incoherent… but this is a difficult balance to achieve. Perhaps the best example of this divergence is my Comparative Politics course. I have now had two such courses (at the graduate level, and one at the undergraduate level). Both (all three if we include undergraduate) of these courses were excellent courses. The core remained the same: the effects of institutions and history on domestic polities. However, where one started with the sociological bases of Comparative (Marx, Weber, and Durkheim), the other has given comparative methodology prime of place. All three components are important and, in my opinion, necessary… it simply escapes me (currently) as to how all three components can be given sufficient attention in one semester.

I got an excellent surprise that first week of class. A dear friend, Allison, with whom I worked as the European Union Center of Excellence at Georgia Tech, is a flight attendant. I got a random call Wednesday evening (September 2) asking: “What are you doing on Friday?” Sweet Allison took the first flight out of Atlanta on Friday morning and came to spend the day with me on her way to Hawaii! Actually, not really on the way to Hawaii, she flew from Atlanta to Pittsburgh, Pittsburgh to Atlanta, Atlanta to Los Angeles (where she spent the day with another friend), Los Angeles to Honolulu, and (I think) Honolulu to Kauai(?). What a fun day we had! It was a beautiful early fall day, so she got a great view of the city when we came over the bridge. We walked over to Walnut Street for lunch and a little shopping. We found a cute cupcake book, which Allison wanted to buy for me as a housewarming gift. We later made cupcakes (from the book), walked around Oakland, and went to Happy Hour with the department. We finished off the evening with dinner at an Italian in Bloomfield. Allison’s flight out was super early (like, 6 am). This less-than-24-hour-long-visit was such a sweet surprise!

Fast forward to late September (and fill in the space with “I read non-stop and took occasional breaks to watch Yellow Jacket football and go to happy hour with my friends”). For Jordan’s birthday I made rocky road cupcakes, we ordered in, and watched X-Men. For anyone who knows me, this is a BFD… I can hardly sit through a movie… never mind an action movie!

Jordan and I flew home to Atlanta (thanks to dad!) to attend an engagement dinner for Craig (my brother) and Pam. What an excellent night! Both families were in full attendance. Mum and dad, Jordan and I, Craig and Pam, and Rachel (my sister) and Tyler (her boyfriend) on Craig’s side. On Pam’s side Bronda (her mum) and Mike (here dad) and Daniel (her brother) and Carmen (his then girlfriend, now fiancĂ©). We had an awesome (as always) dinner at Grace, gave them gifts, and just hung out. Backing up a couple of days, we flew to Atlanta Thursday night, I had a hair appointment with Julie Friday morning, mum and I went to the outlets Friday afternoon, and dinner for Craig and Pam was Friday night. Saturday, we drove down town to watch the Yellow Jackets manhandle UNC. It was so nice to be back at Bobby Dodd Stadium and Historic Grant Field! After dinner, Jordan and I drove out to Covington and spent the evening with Jordan’s parents. We stayed in Covington that night and celebrated Jordan’s birthday with his mum and dad the next day.

October was mental. Primarily, Yasemin and I decided to take a short course (half the credits of a standard course) offered by the EUCE. I am so glad that I took this course, it was on the EU’s emerging global authority and we were exposed to Asian perceptions of the EU, ESDP missions, and sample research of US perceptions on the EU. Frankly, I did not have time to do the work for an extra course, but it was totally worth it. The course was taught by a visiting professor, Dr. Martin Holland, who is an EU scholar and Monnet Chair from Canterbury, New Zealand.

On top of the short course, Vicky and Henry (Jordan’s parents) planned a trip to see us to coincide with Vicky’s birthday and Jordan’s fall break (let’s be clear, by fall break I mean nothing was different… he still had his usual meetings, etc.) We had a brilliant time with Vicky and Henry. We had dinner in Bloomfield on Friday night. Saturday, we got a late start (slept in a little, had coffee, etc.). Vicky and I headed to the other outlet mall (told you I would get there!) in Washington, which was awesome, to get some Christmas shopping done – a very successful trip! Jordan and Henry stayed at home, had lunch, went to the bakery to get breakfast for the next day, and watch the Georgia game. When Vicky and I arrived home, we watched the Tech game and then headed to McCormick and Schmick’s (Vicky and Henry’s favorite restaurant) for dinner. Sunday, we tried a new church, showed Vicky and Henry around Oakland (primarily CMU) and had lunch on Walnut Street before whisking them off to the airport. A full-but-fun weekend!

And now here we are, November. The first weekend in November marked Auburn’s homecoming. My dad had bought club-seating tickets and rented a suite for himself and my mum, only to realize that he had business obligations in Arizona. Score one for me… in his place, dad flew me down to Atlanta, where mum picked me up, and we drove to Auburn with Bailey to see Rachel. The first night, we had dinner with Jan and Ailsa. This is a strange-but-true story. When Rachel was going through rush, we were all happy to hear that she liked (and kept getting invited back to) Pi Beta Phi. You see, several of Craig’s friends from high school are/were Pi Phi’s at Auburn, Craig had attended a couple of events with Pi Phi… basically, we felt that they were a “known quantity.” Bid day (families are invited to share this day with their daughter/sister), we were all told about this other Scottish girl in Pi Phi. This was exciting to us, but we didn’t get to meet this mystery girl that day. Fast forward to Pi Phi family weekend (March 2009) and we (mum, dad, and I) had the opportunity to meet this girl and her parents. Turns out they are from Inch (not too far from Aberdeen!) And there you have it, two Scottish girls the same age, with similar pasts (moved to the US about the same time for their dads’ businesses), end up in the same sorority in BFE (Auburn), Alabama. Needless to say, we got along well with Ailsa’s parents (two Scottish families and alcohol… go figure). Fast forward to this November, and you have five Scottish women having dinner together in Auburn.

Friday, mum and I went shopping in Auburn. Rachel was planning to come with us, but she was not feeling well and decided to sleep so that she could feel better for the game on Saturday. Craig and Pam drove down from Atlanta, came to dinner with us that evening, and stayed in the suite with us. They got up and left early Saturday morning so that Craig could attend the Georgia Tech-Wake Forrest game (which was too close for my liking). Mum and I started getting ready for the game and Rachel ultimately decided not to go. We felt so bad, but, after a visit to the Dr. on Monday, we found that she had bronchitis. Good call on not going to the game. Thankfully, but not surprisingly, Auburn won (and virtually doubled Furman’s score). Mum and I grabbed Bailey and ventured to Toomer’s Corner. I will post pictures later, but Google it: Auburn students, alumni, and fans toilet paper the trees on this corner after a win! What a cool experience! We then snuck Bailey up to the suite where Rachel and I watched the Tech game and took a nap.

So there you have it. Three months boiled down to a not-so-short blog post! All my pictures from these events are on Facebook, but my next plan is to post a handful here.

No promises, but I at least intend to be better about updating this thing!!

Love,

Sarah